The Other Man Tells All... Brokeback Mountain and On the Downlow revealed new aspects of the hidden world of “gay married men” But now, for the first time, a book has been published by the “Other Man” which should serve as a wake-up call to millions of women whose husbands are secretly living a bisexual/gay life. "Forbidden Love with a Married Man; E-mail Diaries," written by Dennis Schleicher